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Dating got intelligent. Finally.

Besti is your AI-powered safety app for the 4 stages of dating.

Check Chat Date Mate

Besti verifies their identity, reads your conversations for red flags, and automatically alerts your safety circle when you're on the date and no longer feel safe. Besti continues scanning your conversations throughout the dating process for manipulation, gaslighting, and dishonest behavior while also flagging when they show signs of being genuine and trustworthy.

Besti
your AI-powered dating safety app
👤
4 stages of dating
🔍
Check
Verify who they are
💬
Chat
Scan conversations
📍
Date
Real-time safety
❤️
Mate
Ongoing analysis
Red Flag Meter
🚩🚩🚩🚩
Proceed with caution
Date — Active
Mid-date check-in pending
The Problem

Modern Dating

She's been solving this manually. Every. Single. Time.

Women have been piecing together their own safety system using Google, text messages, and gut feelings — across 4 stages of dating where anything can go wrong.

🔍

Check — No way to know who she's really meeting

Every time she matches with or meets someone new she has no real way to know if they are who they say they are. So she Googles them, checks their socials, asks around — but still isn't sure.

💬

Chat — Every conversation is a guessing game

Every conversation leaves her wondering — is this real or is she missing something? She screenshots, she overthinks, she asks her friends — and still second guesses herself.

📍

Date — No real safety plan if something goes wrong

She location shares with her friends before every first date, has her friend call 15 minutes into the date in case she needs an excuse to leave, and hopes that's enough — but if something goes wrong there's no real plan in place.

🚨

Mate — Red flags that don't show up right away

Once she's actually dating someone the red flags don't always show up right away. Potential scams, manipulation, and gaslighting are subtle — and by the time she notices something is off it may be too late.

Modern dating is exciting. It can also be dangerous. The numbers don't lie.

31%
of women have been sexually assaulted by someone they met on a dating app
51%
of female rape victims were assaulted by someone they were dating or in a relationship with
68%
of sexual assaults are never reported to police
100%
of major dating apps allow banned users to create a new account and start matching again immediately
Besti handles all of it. Automatically.

Four stages. One app.
No more guessing.

Every feature in Besti is built around the 4 stages of dating — from the first match to an ongoing relationship.

1
Check

Verify who they are before you agree to meet. No personal details revealed — just a Red Flag Meter rating.

Name & Platform Scan
Scans their name across platforms — if they go by Jason on Instagram but Brandon on Tinder, Besti catches it.
Catfish Detection
Compares their profile photo against their other online presence — if they're using a photo from 10 years ago or one that belongs to someone else, Besti flags it.
Public Records Check
Checks criminal history and sex offender registries. Besti never reveals personal information.
Red Flag Meter
🚩 Something minor worth noting
🚩🚩 Proceed with caution
🚩🚩🚩 Serious concern
🚩🚩🚩🚩 Do not meet this person
2
Chat

Know what's real in the conversation before you agree to meet.

Early Warning Detection
Reads your conversations and detects early warning signs — pressure tactics, moving too fast, inconsistencies in their story.
Financial Red Flag Detection
If they ask for money, gift cards, or personal financial information Besti catches it immediately.
Inconsistency Tracking
If their story keeps changing — their job, where they live, what they said last week — Besti notices and flags it before you do.
Red Flag Meter
🚩 Something minor worth noting
🚩🚩 Proceed with caution
🚩🚩🚩 Serious concern
🚩🚩🚩🚩 Do not meet this person
3
Date

Real time safety — automatically. You focus on the date. Besti handles the backup plan.

Date Safety Mode
Activate before your date — your safety circle is notified and your live location is shared for up to 6 hours or until you mark yourself safe.
Scheduled & Manual Incoming Call
Pre-schedule a call at the 15 minute mark or trigger one manually anytime during the date.
Voice SOS + Silent 911
Say your custom voice prompt — Besti alerts your safety circle and triggers an incoming call. If you don't answer, Besti silently connects to 911. The dispatcher hears everything. Your location is sent automatically. Help is on the way.
4
Mate

Catch the patterns that build slowly — the red flags that don't show up on the first date.

Ongoing Conversation Analysis
Besti continues scanning your conversations throughout the dating process for manipulation, gaslighting, and dishonest behavior.
Financial Scam Detection
If they are gradually building trust to ask for money Besti catches the pattern before you do.
Love Bombing Alerts
If they are moving unusually fast with affection, gifts, or commitment Besti alerts you.
Red Flag Meter
🚩 Something minor worth noting
🚩🚩 Proceed with caution
🚩🚩🚩 Serious concern
🚩🚩🚩🚩 Remove this person from your life
Interactive Demo

Experience Besti live.

Click through every feature of the Besti prototype below — fully interactive, no download required.

besti prototype — okbesti.com
Pricing

Start free. Upgrade when it matters.

The $3 Day Pass is the genius entry point — she buys it Friday night before a first date without thinking twice.

Free
$0
forever
1 scan per month. Check & Chat (basic).
Pro Monthly
$20
per month
Unlimited scans. All 4 stages. Full date safety suite.
Pro Annual
$192
per year
Save $48 vs monthly. All Pro features. Best value if you're committed.
Founding Year
$200
then $9.99/mo forever
Limited seats. Your rate is locked permanently — never goes up.
Market Opportunity

A category that doesn't exist yet.

370M+
Global dating app users representing the primary addressable market
$3B+
Women's safety tech market growing at 15% annually
15%
Annual growth rate of the women's safety technology sector
$0
Direct competitors operating at this intersection of features

Besti is not entering an existing market. It is defining a new one.

The Founder

Built by the user.

EB
Ebony Brown
Founder & CEO, Besti

Celebrity stylist, BET-recognized educator, published author of Undeniably Visible, and identity coach with an owned audience of 160,000+ on TikTok — a direct and warm distribution channel to Besti's core user. She is not pitching a concept. She is the user. And so is every woman in her audience.

BET Recognized 160K Owned Audience Published Author Celebrity Stylist Built-in Day-One Distribution

"No woman should have to go on a date without her Besti."

— Ebony Brown, Founder

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